Questions to ask yourself … to learn English
10 Questions to help language learners reflect and plan their language studies
Every morning over coffee and porridge I read one or two online articles that catch my eye… The “Questions to ask yourself” series in The Guardian has got me thinking. These articles pose questions to encourage readers to reflect and take actionable steps to improve various aspects of their lives.
Inspired by this approach, I’ve created a version specifically for language learners. Whether you’re a beginner (Für Anfänger habe ich hier eine deutsche Version dieses Blogposts) or an advanced learner, the following questions are designed to help you assess your progress, overcome challenges, and make the most of your language-learning journey. I even used some of the questions with my German language coach (the wonderful Anna Pejchal) to help me with my own learning.
As Oliver Burkeman writes in The Guardian article , the questions:
“… can be answered only by the person who possesses by far the most detailed understanding of what might genuinely make a difference in your life, which is you.”
Learning a new language is an adventure, full of challenges, frustrations, and rewarding moments. Whether you’re aiming to talk with locals on holiday, or improve your skills for work, the journey to fluency starts with asking the right questions.
Here’s a guide to reflecting on your progress, identifying your strengths, and refining your approach.
Why do I want to learn this language?
Motivation is the engine of any successful language-learning journey. Are you dreaming of ordering an afternoon tea in perfect British English or impressing colleagues with your presentation skills? Perhaps you’re reconnecting with international friends or simply love to learn something new. Being clear on your “why” gives you purpose, which is essential on days when progress feels slow.
What have I learned so far?
Take a moment to celebrate your wins. Can you confidently introduce yourself or order a coffee? Have you mastered the tricky pronunciation of ‘thorough’? Progress can be incremental and recognising what you’ve accomplished builds confidence and momentum.
What am I struggling with?
Maybe your vocabulary is expanding, but you feel uncomfortable introducing yourself to someone new. Or you always get ten out of ten in grammar exercises but freeze when speaking. Identifying your pain points helps you focus your efforts—and feel okay with the fact that challenges are part of the process.
Am I practising enough—and in the right way?
Language skills need regular practice, so consider how much time you’re giving to your studies. More importantly, how are you spending that time? Are you balancing passive input (listening and reading) with active output (speaking and writing)? Diversifying your approach can work wonders. Short and sweet, but regular practice is often the way forward. For you personally, an intensive course might be what you need. It’s important to find an option which fits to you and your style.
Are my resources working for me?
From language apps to podcasts, textbooks to conversation classes, there’s no shortage of tools at your disposal. But not all resources suit every learner. If your current methods aren’t clicking, try switching things up—a new English trainer (I’m here if you need me 😊 ), AI tool or engaging TV series might breathe new life into your routine.
How often do I step out of my comfort zone?
Learning a language means making mistakes, often loudly and in public. Do you take opportunities to practise in real life, or are you holding back? Embrace the awkwardness—it’s how you grow. Speaking to real people is the fastest way to build confidence.
Am I connecting with the culture behind the language?
Language and culture are inseparable. Watching films, listening to music, or diving into books from the countries where your target language is spoken can make your studies feel richer—and more fun. English has many different versions, it’s a great chance to see what the world can offer. After all, languages are for living, not just learning.
What keeps me motivated?
Motivation can wobble, so it’s worth considering how you keep it alive. Do you set milestones, like learning 10 new words a week or mastering a song’s lyrics? Do you reward yourself—a treat after your first conversation or a holiday once you’ve reached a certain level? Celebrating progress makes the journey more enjoyable.
Am I being patient with myself?
Language learning is a marathon, not a sprint. You’re sure to hit plateaus or feel like you’re moving backwards at times. Be kind to yourself and trust the process. Even the most fluent speakers were once beginners.
What’s my next step?
Whether it’s booking a conversation class, starting a journal in English, or planning a trip abroad, having a clear next step can re-energise your studies. Learning a language is an ongoing journey—keep asking yourself these questions, and you’ll keep moving forward.
If these questions sparked some ideas, why not turn them into action? Let’s talk about how I can help you build your answers into a learning plan.
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Hello,
I’m Jane Carvell, a business English trainer and language coach. I help German-speaking professionals improve their English communication skills, so that they can build better connections and flourish in an international working world.
